January 2001

January 1

 

Happy New Year!
May all of us have a great future.  Good luck navigating the new and improved actnuts!

 

January 2

 

My family is back! - 10:39pm
Click here to see the vacation picturesEveryone had a great time in the mountains.  They were filled with stories of their experiences.  The house and area sound awesome.  Christy did a great job with the pictures.  I hope to go there soon.  Click the picture to see more of what they enjoyed.

 

 

January 3

 

Amber's speech - 7:59pm
Check out this speech that Amber has written to say at school tomorrow.  Warning!  What you are about to read is graphic in nature.  Due to the content parental guidance is suggested.  Read it.

 

 

 

January 4

 

Success - 8:50pm
Amber did very well with her speech today.  She made it to finals.  Tomorrow will determine if she says her speech in front of the entire school.  She also is the only one in her math class to have an 'A'.  I got off work today at noon and was able to take the kids to dinner while Christy had cheerleading practice.  We ate at Beef O'Brady's.  I then watched Hunter at Karate.  Meanwhile, Nanny Trisha is getting acquainted with being retired.  By the way, I have updated a few sites.  You can see the changes at Sarah's, Lauren's, Trisha's, Steve's and Joe's sites.  I am going to try to update this site in the mornings instead of night.  That way the dates will jive.  Any questions?  Use the guest book for comments or suggestions.

 

 

 

January 5

 

 

Morning updates - 5:34am
The plan is to write the news section each morning.  If you missed the news from January 4th simply visit the News Vault link at the top of this page.  Good luck to Amber today as she tries to outdo everybody with her speech.  I know she can do it.  Hunter operated his mini-bike yesterday for about 15 minutes.  This is an awful time of day!  Yawn!  Look for daily updates and have a great day.

 

 

 

January 6

 

 

Ladies and Gentleman, introducing the champion - 5:58am
Amber won the speech contest!  She will give her speech in front of the entire school next Wednesday.  She is proud of herself and of course we are proud of her.  What a girl!  Last night she went to watch the Tiger Sharks with her friend Katie.  The cameras caught her and Katie dancing to the music.  Much to their surprise they played it back to the crowd on the huge screen TV in slow motion no less!  Hunter was kind of out of sorts last night.  I think he was angry that Amber was out having fun.  We did go to the mall tonight.  We ran into Sarah and Adam.  Sarah showed us the great job she did on her pottery.  Be sure to add your favorite websites to the above form and I will post them on the links page under your name.

 

 

 

January 7

 

 

Notable
Barbra came for a visit tonight.  Her hair looks great.  I should of taken a picture!  I'm pretty sleepy so I will blame my tiredness on my lack of foresight.  Time for bed.  I am looking forward to a restful day tomorrow.  Thanks Christy for filling out the favorite website form.  How about the rest of you?  I know you are visiting.  I am able to capture every person's address that visits actnuts.  If you are interested in seeing what the logs look like click here for a sample.  I can tell who visits and where they click.  Come on, leave me your favorite sites.  Bye Bye now.

 

 

 

January 8

 

 

Back to the grind - 5:56am
plant.jpg (44508 bytes)It's a new week.  It was a good Sunday all in all.  The kids and I joined Grandpa at the park to start the day.  Ending the day, Christy and I ate dinner with the kids at The Roadhouse.  I will probably take Wednesday off this week so that I can watch Amber's speech.  This weekend Amber has her gymnastic meet in Pensacola.  Christy will most likely spend the weekend there.  Perhaps I will be able to join them.  Have a great day.

 

 

 

January 9

 

 

Will Rogers - 5:56am
Claude emailed some great quotes from Will Rogers.  People used to be smarter I suspect.  Anyway,  I found a few more quotes from Mr. Rogers.  Click here to learn from the past.  I am off tomorrow.  I can't wait to see Amber make her speech.  Last night Christy tried to convince her to wear a dress.  Christy lost.  Christy and the kids are going to spend Saturday night in Pensacola for the meet.  Nanny will join them.  I guess I will stay home and party, party, party.

 

 

 

January 10

 

 

Speech day - 7:06am
Seems like Amber is in the spotlight today.  Her speech is at 9am.  Christy and I will be attending as well as Grandma and Grandpa.  She won at the classroom level and now is competing with the other classes.  The winner gets one million dollars.  Actually, that may not be entirely true.  She received a letter from the middle school we are zoned for informing her that she is eligible for a program they offer.  It is called the Technology Magnet Program.  This is offered because she is in the upper quartile of her class!  Good job Amber.

 

 

 

January 11

 

 

Happy Birthday Amber! - 5:06am
Click here to see Amber's newborn days!We love you so much little bunny girl!  I can remember holding you in my lap staring at you in disbelief.  Eleven years later and I am still in disbelief!  How you have changed!  Take a look at these pictures of my little baby girl.  Amber didn't place at her speech contest.  If you ask me the whole thing was fixed.  She did very well.  For her birthday, Amber requested that I download a few songs by Aqua and to burn them on a compact disc for her.   In other news, I took Hunter to Kenpo last night.  He has been in Kenpo for nearly a year now.  He has really improved.  I can remember his first class!  Birthdays make me reflect on how fast time flies.  I don't recall time going by so fast before I had children.  Parents, love your children and enjoy them while they remain small enough to beat!  Check out this cute picture of Hunter and Rascal while you're still here.

 

 

 

Adam's Hockey

 


hockeyman.jpg (14029 bytes)Last night Christy joined Barbra at Adam's hockey game.  His team won 4 to 1!  Adam set up a lot of the goals.  Christy says the rink is awesome.  Good job Adam.  I'll have to go and watch sometime.  Click his picture to zoom in.

 

 

January 12

 

 

Doctor Visit - 5:06am
Nanny had several visits to the Doctor this week.  Her blood pressure and her back have been troubling her.  The first visit confirmed she needed to start medication.  The second visit uncovered the reasons for her migraines and back pain.  Scoliosis!  Apparently her last Doctor overlooked this condition.  Any how, she will undergo either shots or physical therapy.  Most likely therapy will be the next course of action.  Now she knows that she hasn't been crazy about her aliments.  Get well!

 

 

 

Amber thanks you

 

All the thoughts and gifts were appreciated by squirrel girl.  She asks that you send love and presents every day this year. 

 

 

January 13

 

 

Pensacola bound! - 6:06am
Christy and the kids will be heading west this morning.  They are going to stay at The Dunes Hotel on Pensacola Beach.  Click the picture to get a closer look.  They will return late Sunday.  Good luck Amber!  She will do her best to beat the other gymnasts.  I doubt they will have much fun without me being with them.  Yeah, right.  Remember Christy,  head WEST not EAST.  When it is time to come back to Tallahassee head EAST not WEST.  I should've bought her a compass for Christmas.

 

 

 

January 14

 

 

Third stripe earned! - 9:06am
Yesterday with expert spinning back kicks Hunter has proven himself.  Now he begins training for the esteemed purple belt.  The belt exam is a month away.  We are proud of you Hunter.

 

Poor directions foul the gymnastic trip - 9:43am
Apparently the directions I gave Christy took her to downtown Pensacola which is about an hour out of the way from where she was supposed to go.  Woops!  Now that I have made my first little mistake of the year I can move on to bigger and better mistakes.  They eventually found the hotel.  Christy called and cursed me unmercifully for two minutes straight.  I deserve it.  I haven't heard from them regarding Amber's meet results.  This could be my punishment.

 

 

 

January 15

 

 

Pensacola Gymnastic Meet - 5:06am
winner.jpg (21421 bytes)Amber placed 3rd overall and made state!  She was very pleased with her performance.  She will compete in April at state level.  I will take that Saturday in April off so that I can drive her down to the meet in Tampa.  Unfortunately the competition falls on the same day that Kerri gets married.  Since Christy is in Kerri's wedding she may not be able to go.  Click the picture or here to see more Pensacola pictures.  Nanny, thanks for going with Christy.

Nepotism! - 5:07am
I have learned that Nina will be working at the same doctors office as Barbra!  What a blessed life we all share.  Nina will come to Tallahassee later this month to interview.  

Tallahassee Marathon thanks the helpers - 5:08am
Grandma and Grandpa's house was on the route for the runners yesterday.  Barbra, Sarah and her friend Paula joined them on the curb to hand drinks out to the runners.  Sarah and her friend ended up jogging a couple miles themselves!

Dentist - 5:09am
The kids have a big dental visit today.  Amber will have 3 teeth yanked out!  Adam called last night and wished her well with encouraging words.  Hunter will have a clear coat put on his teeth.  I'll give Christy the camera so that graphic pictures may be taken.

 

 

January 16

 

 

Tooth Fairy Haven - 6:19am
Amber had her teeth removed.  They're in her mouth no more.  Three is a lot to take at once.  Thank God it wasn't four!  My girl Amber she did cry!  She did cry in pa-ain.  But Christy took good care of her...without going insane!  O.K. enough of the sing song, song sings thing.  Poor Christy dealt with all the trauma.  This episode began at one this afternoon.  To make her evening exciting, Amber developed stomach cramps that lasted 5 or more hours.  At one point she begged to be dragged out back and shot in the head.  Instead, we gave her a Tums and put her in bed.  Hunter is an absolute champion on the mini bike now.  He takes turns at high speeds!  Our front yard will never be the same.  I'm off today!  Can you say AMEN!

 

 

 

January 17

 

 

Lunch with the kids - 6:19am
Click to see the rest of the picturesYesterday I joined my two favorite children for lunch at their school.  First Hunter and then Amber.  It is remarkable how different the little boys are from the little girls.  I could list a few dozen things but I'm sure they are obvious.   Click the picture to see the rest.

 

 

 

January 18

 

Beer emotions run rampant - 5:07am
Last night I drank a few beers.  Plus, I had enlightened conversation.  The two seem to combine in a unique way.  I am so in love with the human animal.  We are such special beings.  Complex!  Why?  A creature capable of creating beer.  The word creature comes from the word created.  We are creatures.  We were created.  By our mother and father.  I'm not telling you anything new.  From our parents we come.  And so we are.  Nothing more.  Nothing more?  We are so much more than we think we are.  We are divine.  And yet we are so imperfect.  We are evolved and yet so primitive.  I doubt that man has changed at all in the last 10,000 years.  Only our tools have changed.  We are still filled with fear, distrust, jealousy, envy and confusion.  We still crave attention, affection, intimacy and praise.  Our ancestors sought the same exact thing as we do today.  I'm sure of it.   One more thing.  Dictionary.com defines love as a deep, tender, ineffable feeling of affection and solicitude toward a person, such as that arising from kinship, recognition of attractive qualities, or a sense of underlying oneness.  There are actually 9 entries for the word love.  I truly believe that love is indescribable.  The word doesn't belong in the dictionary.  The depth of its meaning boggles the mind.  Make this day special.  Look at the ones you care for.  Don't tell them you love them.  Show them.  Overwhelm them.  On second thought,  that may scare the hell out of them.  Never mind.

 

 

Report cards

 


The kids progress reports are awesome.  To what is this owed?  D.N.A.?  More like Christy.  She makes me feel so secure that our children will succeed in school.  Are kids are true champions academically.  With Christy there is no other choice.  They will succeed.  They will do their best.  I will never meet another person more determined than my wife.  She can focus so intently on the task at hand.  She gives her all to assist our kids with accomplishing their duties.  It's damn scary.  Sometimes it looks so haphazard.  And yet when it's time to rhyme everything falls in place.  Christy,  I love you!  See the above definition!  Good job kids!  Keep following your mothers guidance and you will never go wrong.  My role is slowing falling into place.  I'm the guy that occasionally wrestles and jokes around with the kids.  I happen to be the same guy that is capable of tormenting the hell out of his children's mother.  Side note:  I wonder how many people actually read through this whole news post.  If you have, add your thoughts to the guest book.  Dig deep and let it all hang out.  I have given you my heartfelt thoughts.  Your turn.  Be brave.

 

 

January 20

 

 

Reunited! - 7:17am
Nichole Zylick is in Tallahassee to visit Barbra for the weekend.  It's hard to believe that high school was 18 years ago!  My first memory of Nichole was when I saw her in the school cafeteria.  Several dozen boys had manly thoughts for the first time on that day.  Of course, I had been having those thoughts since 5th grade or so.  In any event, she became good friends with Barbra.  Thank you Barbra for having such great friends! My life too was touched by Nichole.  Last night, Christy joined them for an evening of dinner, conversation and whatever else kept them out late.  I took the kids to see 'Cast Away'.  I think they enjoyed it.  They both picked up some important messages from the flick.  Tonight Amber has 5 little girls spending the night to celebrate her 11th birthday.  God Help Us!

 

 

 

January 19

 

Skate night - 5:07am
hunter2.jpg (8872 bytes)Christy and I took the kids to skate world last night.  They skated with their friends for a couple of hours.  We saw Sarah there as well.  Click the image to see a few poorly lit photographs. 

 

 

 

 

 

January 21

Amber's Birthday Sleep Over - 7:17am
Amber's sleep overFive little girls slept over with Amber last night.  The noise level was equivalent to stampeding buffalo.  Our house may never be the same.  All in all, the damage was under thirty thousand dollars.  Want to take a look?  Click the picture or here

 

 

 

January 22

 

Nanny's retirement bash - 6:17am
Click here to see the rest of the picturesLast night we attended a retirement party celebrating a special retirement.  Nanny worked for the state of Florida for 30 years and 7 months!  Congratulations!  The party was hosted by their neighbors Larry and Mary Jo Trodd.  The neighborhood they live in is so unique.  Everyone has been friends forever and seem to share a bunch of common interests.  Take a peek at the rest of the pictures here

 

 

January 23

 

Day Off - 9:02am
Here I am.  What should I do?  Lots to be done.  I'd rather have fun.  So while I do the things that I must, I'll try and remember that life is to lust.  And lust I will after things that are fun.  Why walk when I can run?  Why frown when I can smile?  Show my teeth like a crocodile.  Join me now.  Won't you try!  Live your life.  I'll show you how.  Show your teeth like a crocodile.  Now!

 

 

January 24

 

Ho Hum - 5:52am
I must still be asleep.  I'm not sure what to say.  Surely there is something newsworthy or notable to remark about.  Maybe not.  I could still be in bed but I'm not.  Our electric bill was $448!  That's about $120 more than usual.  It does seem like our air conditioner runs non-stop.  We even try to turn it off while we are gone during the day.  Oh well!  Crank it up!

 

 

January 25

 

Shop Early - 6:04am
For lack of anything better to write about I feel the need to mention that Christmas is only eleven months away.  It is hard to believe that last Christmas was a month ago.  I think that was my last day off as well.  So much can happen in the next eleven months.  This may be the best time to buy that special gift for that special somebody.  Shop while you have the means.  Shop while you are alive.  Remember, label your wrapped gifts.  As for me, I will wait until December 20th to start my shopping.  Why break tradition.  I plan on doing something nutty for lunch today so that I will have something to write about tomorrow morning.  This is ridiculous.

 

 

January 26

 

Nina on her way! - 6:24am
She won't be here long this time but she is getting things in order to make Tallahassee her home.  I'm sure her interview will go well.  I updated several things on this site last night.  I won't give you any clues as to what, however.  In response to your guest book message Barbra, Adam's hockey picture has been on his page for the last few weeks!  Please feel free to borrow the camera so that we can put more on.

 

 

January 28

 

Changes - 6:24am
Many things will change over the next few months.  Nina, Claude and Mark are moving to Tallahassee.  Nina has accepted a job at the hospital working in the same place as Barbra.  They will move into their new home soon after she starts work.  What all will occur with these changes?  No one truly knows.  It is so exciting!  Sometimes change is difficult.  The Shipley's have moved dozens of times in their lives it seems.  This move will be different from all the rest.  I imagine Claude is going through weird feelings.  Time to toast and celebrate.  One sure thing about change.  You can always count on it.

 

 

Birthday Party

 

belly.jpg (32022 bytes)We celebrated  Amber and Lauren's birthdays last night.  Lauren surprised everyone with a fresh belly button piercing.  Click the picture to see a few more shots of the party and the belly jewelry.

 

 

January 28

 

What's new? - 5:22am
The month is almost over.  We have in our possession the photo albums that Grandma has compiled for Amber and Hunter.  Thank you so much.  That took lots of love and attention.  I am going to go through them and add them to their web pages.  Have a great day everyone.

 

 

January 31

 

Where has the month gone? - 6:22am
How did that happen?  Ok.  Let it go.  There is only the future to think about.  February is an important month.  Valentines Day!  See you all on the flip side.

 

 

 

 


I just wanted to say hello and tell you I enjoyed the web page.....Your friend at SunTrust Bank.
Wazzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz Upppppppppppp.
2001-01-31 16:27:12, Kevin Snyder


Continue
Sarah,
Amber, Hunter and I had a good time at dinner
also. We laughed all the way home, about your
balloons popping. I hope we can do it again soon.
2001-01-31 14:27:55, Love, Christy


Aunt Leona is here. Come by for a visit if you have the chance. I Kids I am glad you are enjoying the books I have put together for you. There were be more to come. Love you.
2001-01-31 08:03:01, Bea


THANK YOU GRANDMA AND GRANDPA FOR DINNER! AND IT WAS FUN WITH THE BOWMAN'S AT BUFFALOS!
2001-01-30 20:38:37, SARAH MERTZ


Kurt, I got questions from everyone but you...Do you need a book to ask questions?
2001-01-30 18:18:05, Dad


Ok!!!!!I can not stand it one more day! I have held it in for as long as i could. I MISS DEREK!!!
Be ready for me to fuss and complain to all who will listen and do got give me the "we've all been through it" crap.:)ha-ha.8 more weeks to go!!!!!!!!!Thanks for listening. love Barbra
2001-01-30 16:31:42, Barbra


Mid week! What is everyone doing? busy? I know what it is all about. Chasing the buck. That is life. One day you wake up and you are seventy. Yesterday was a beautiful day. Buddy and I took our walk and we had a great time. Some day you will be just like Mama and me...Everyday will be a holiday. Have a nice day! Love, Dad
2001-01-30 06:12:07, Dad


Bowman family. Aunt Leona and Linda are coming in tomorrow. Linda will go on to Atlanta for a few days and Leona will be here with us so if you have the time come by and say Hello to all of us. Springtime seems to be on the way. Love to all
2001-01-29 15:55:04, Mama Bea


Where are you all? Has the winter frozen your fingers and your minds? A few, contribute all the time to the Family web page. While others never appear. What is wrong? Your contributions are needed. A family only survives when every member participates. Tell us what you are doing. Believe me, we all would be happy to see what's going on in your lives. Kurt has provided us with a wonderful vehicle to get involved. Remember, my note to you, some time ago, asking that everyone get more "involved." That means even the grandchildren. They become involved by being involved. Each of them is doing things that we all are interested in. Now, we guess that "young adults" and teenagers are reluctant to reveal the intricate workings of their lives. But if the parents do not contribute anything, how can the grandchildren participate. Set the example. Help! this web page is a wonder to outsiders. Come on, get in.. the water is fine. Participate and have fun. Love, Dad
2001-01-29 12:40:25, Dad


Loved having Nina and everyone to our house last night. It seems fun was had by all. Amber and Lauren have a awesome year. Love you all.
2001-01-27 21:03:58, Mama Bea


Who the hell is sharkfoot!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!and who cares if sharkfoot is moist???
2001-01-26 13:40:36,


Kurt. I was drinking green lemonade tonight and it made me think of you... the stallion of the web. I thought to myself... how does he do it? How does he do it? I wonder. Then I figured it out. It was a nice thing. It was a good thing. It made me moist. 8-]

I still love you
2001-01-25 21:49:57, Sharkfoot


Hello Bowman's! Thanks for inviting me into your warm and loving family last weekend. I had a terrific time - not so much the activities we did - but spending time with you all. I felt like a new person when I came back to work....relaxed and refreshed. You should all be very proud of yourselves for the wonderful family you have created. Looking forward to my next visit...Love Nichole
2001-01-24 12:11:15, Nichole Dyer


January is always a calm month of seems so after the excitement of all the Holidays in the Fall. It is a good month to think of all the past events, clean off ones desk and whatever else needs cleaned out. AND time to think about all the events that can and will happen in the New Year. That is what I am trying to do. Love to all

2001-01-24 09:54:02, Mama Bea


Where is everyone? I have not seen actnuts this empty. Dad?, Mom?, Nina? Come back to your daily Guest book notes. Hope all is good for everyone. I am ready for the weekend. Love Barbra.
PS-KURT DID YOU PUT ADAM'S HOCKEY PIC ON PAGE YET??
2001-01-24 08:09:56, Barbra


Kurt, it was good to see you today. The day ended up good as i got two pair of shoes that I think i will enjoy. I do not enjoy the price. I also need you to return and do some more things to this computer. Now the printer does not work right for regular printing. HELP when you have time. Love you.


2001-01-22 21:18:57, Mama


Had fun with Nicole. Her flight was cancelled last night so had to take her to the airport at 5am.I am at work but not yet awake. Nicole come back and see us all real soon. Christy, Nicole and i had a good time on Friday. Christy was a hot mama in her leather pants. Talked to Derek last night. He sounds great. Said he is having a good time.
2001-01-21 08:04:22, love Barbra


Point for Kurt. MJ it is your ball now.
2001-01-20 22:18:42, GP


Mark, Let me sum up my point on human divinity...We created beer. It's the perfect food.
2001-01-20 21:30:07, your webmaster divine, Kurt


Kurt the ball is in your court. I will be interested to see your response to MJ's comment on your philosophy
2001-01-20 20:25:17, Dad


this is in response to what Kurt said on Jan 18. I agree with you Kurt that man is flawed and primitive but I disagree that we are divine. People try to separate man from beast because animals are filthy and do not behave "civilized". People believe themselves better then animals because people can build themselves homes. So do apes. They build little areas in the forest where they live together. People say only humans have abstract thought. So do chimpanzees. If you hang a banana from the ceiling and leave several large blocks on the ground the chimp will stack the boxes and get the banana. Humans are not so much superior then animals but more or less different. Social vertebrate animals jockey for position in the clan. So do humans but they do it on a grander scale and in a more complex way. Animals fight but one backs down. Humans play to win. I am of course referring to war. Animals have rules of society just as humans do. Those rules are simple. In fact they are the exact rules of bushido and chivalry. Of course the human animal is superior to other creatures from an evolutionary stand point but humans are still animals and they are just as dirty and disgusting as any monster that could be pulled out of the jungles of Africa. Write me if you want to debate this.
2001-01-20 16:58:51, mark


Dear Family, Plan to come to our home Saturday(26th) evening to visit with Nina and to enjoy food, drinks and birthday cake. We will also celebrate Amber's and Lauren's January birthdays. Hope to see you all by 5 a.m. We love you
2001-01-20 10:39:03, Mama and Dad


Mama and I enjoyed our visit with Nichole. She and Barbra came to dinner and we had a great time recalling the good old days in Mt Holly. Nichole looks beautiful and she is just as fun as she ever was. Come back to visit us often, Nichole. You always have a place in our home
2001-01-20 07:46:04, Dad


Today is an historic day! At noon today, we will have a new president. There were no shots fired. One party did not rise up to overthrow the other. It will be a peaceful takeover. But there are 1/4th of the people who think the election was stolen. They are so unhappy that some say they will never vote again. Then there are 1/4th of the people who are happy that George Bush will be our new president. And then there are the disenfranchised. Half of the people did not vote. They never got the picture. They could not make up their mind. They did not like either candidate. They are the middle of the roaders. They are the confused ones. But, our president will be their president also. And so, this great wonderful country with so many different people and so many complex problems will shift gears. The past eight years of corruption and scandal and sleaziness will change. What will the future bring? What ever happens, it will affect all of us. For good or for bad. But, our family will stay the same. All for one and one for all. It is great to be an American! GOD BLESS AMERICA!
2001-01-19 06:50:59, Dad


Great job on the report card Adam. Keep it up

Love Mom
2001-01-18 15:56:20,


Well put Kurt. From a very young age I was taught that Family is the only one you can depend on through thick and thin and sometimes I doubted that fact but after years of experience I came to believe it and embrace that idea and in turn I told my sons the very same thing. They also believe it. ONe day you meet a person and you know with your heart they are family and you can depend on them in good times and in bad. Hopefully you marry that person and they become your soul mate. I believe we have all found the right person to love and support us and if we teach our children nothing more than the lessons our parents taught us ( that family is above all else) then we are successful parents. I love you all!
2001-01-18 08:35:31, Nina


I will agree with Kurt on the meaning of love. I do not think there is any one way to describe what love means. Everyone has a different thought on that. Each person gives and receives love in a different way. Who or what teaches people to love? Do you learn it from parents or on our own? I love my family, My children, Derek, friends and of course chips and salsa!!!!
2001-01-17 16:51:50, love ,Barbra


I have read many things in this web page. Happiness and sadness and about good times and bad times. Often there is only silence on the other end. I know all of you are busy. But, I ask you to take a minute from your busy day to do as Kurt has done and open up your hearts and say what must be inside of your minds. I look forward to hearing from you.
2001-01-17 12:26:57, Dad


Well, What a profound statement on life! Kurt you have said a mouthful. I am impressed. There is not much I can add to your reflections on life. Love is what makes the world go round. Not technically, but spiritually. The most important choice we make in life is our spouse. A good spouse can make life wonderful but a bad one can ruin life for many years. That person whether good or bad, influences everything we do. Secondly, if we are worth a damn, our children are the most important product we ever produce. Influencing them for the brief period that they are able and willing to be influenced, is the most important act that we ever do. It transcends our profession. For jobs come and go, while we are parents for as long as we live and perhaps even longer. What is our job in that process? To me it is to keep our children alive, for they are often prone to courting death. If we can keep them alive till they are able to fend for themselves, we have worked a miracle. The second job is to influence them in a positive way. Give them the tools to survive in this dangerous world. Teach them manners and morals and ethics and support them all of the time. But we also must advise them when they are going wrong. That is the hardest thing we do. It is easy to be a nice parent. Harder to be firm and judgmental. Especially when our children do not seek our advice. If we have done all of that, we have just begun to earn our stripes as a parent. The job is never done. So making the right selection of a mate, we can accomplish anything. What do you think?
2001-01-17 12:22:58, Dad


Hello everyone. I just wanted to share Sarah's report card. ALL A'S and 6 B's. Sarah I am proud of you. Hope you always love school. Great job.
2001-01-17 07:40:52, Barbra


Another grungy day. But, spring is coming. Birds are singing and camellias are blooming. Is winter over? Not yet, but soon. So far 2001 has been the best year, yet. You kids sure know how to make your parents happy. Love is the key.
2001-01-16 16:34:47, Dad


Congratulations Hunter on your stripe. You look awesome. Maybe some day you will be look like Bruce Lee. Come to see GP again, soon. I had almost forgotten what Kurt looks like. Business demands long hours arduous days and nights and dedication. Cats in the cradle is the name of the game. I know what its all about for I did what you are doing and Mama raised the kids. That is why you kids all turned out so good! Praise to your Mama
2001-01-15 19:17:43, Dad


Amber I was surprised and so pleased to spend time with you today. Your teeth look neat and I hope you saved them for history's sake. You can always make a necklace of them. You will loose more as time goes by so remember the pain then forget it. I love being with you. We howled with Buddy and acted like wolves, Ahoooooooooooo
2001-01-15 19:12:48, GP


Thanks Bea, I would not want to go backward. Life has been good and I know this. We all have to face challenges of varying degrees. I had a great time with Christy and the kids this weekend. It proved to be an enlightening experience. Christy has threatened me if I tell of my experience. But I fear not and think everyone should know that on this trip, Christy acknowledged that maybe she is where Amber gets her impatience from. This came after a very tense moment of talking on the cell phone, turning down a one-way street the wrong way, and wondering why your mother can't get us pointed in the right direction. All I could do was laugh and say thank you sweet Jesus. One day I will share the full story of Christy's awakening. By the way, Hunter was a real trooper and did sit and watch Amber was once competition started. P.S. don't ever give Hunter a $5 bill to go buy a $.50 bag of popcorn. Another, story. As you can tell, I had a blast! Nanny
2001-01-14 10:04:35, Tricia


Hey gang. Remember that the runners will be coming by our place about 9:20 in the a.m. Give or take some minutes. Come join us if you can and help to head up the water cups. Should be fun. The runners will be coming by two times so if you are not here at the first time maybe you can make it a little later.
2001-01-12 22:13:32, Bea


Good luck today Amber. Christy i have faith you can make it there and back. You and i should see if we can make it to the Keys and back all by ourselves.:) Sorry i missed your call this am. I will call you on Sunday
2001-01-12 13:09:44, Barbra


Kurt you are so funny. Yes I will head west on the way there and east on the way back. Remember my mom is coming with me, so I will not get lost. Thanks for taking Hunter to Karate today so I could finish packing. Have fun tonight!!!!!!!!!
2001-01-12 09:26:25, Love, Christy


Happy Robert E. Lee holiday. From today until the 19th of January (REL's Birthday) I will be celebrating this holiday honoring one of the the most famous Americans that ever lived. Join me in celebrating this important holiday. Visit me and have a drink with me to celebrate REL's birthday.
2001-01-11 16:26:48, Grandpa, AKA. Dad, Joe,Wolfman


Amber, I send you my love for each day of the year. We will be thinking of you this weekend while you are at the gym meet. Good luck to you and we know that you will do your very best. Have fun.
2001-01-11 13:26:01, Grandma Bea


sorry to hear of your problems Tricia. Hope all goes well with therapy. It sure takes up time to do it but the payoff is usually good. I hope that Granddaddy results are good. Getting older sure is not easy but here is a saying that has given me a better outlook. "Don't regret growing old...it's a privilege denied to many"
2001-01-11 13:22:33, Bea


Oops forgot to tell you guys last night that Granddaddy went for his biopsy yesterday and will know in about a week the results. Stay tuned . . .
2001-01-11 12:52:21, Tricia


Thanks for thinking about me. And, you are so right. Physical therapy over shots in the back any day. I was so glad I got to go see Amber give her speech. I thought she should have placed. I am not biased at all. I am looking forward to going to her gym meet. Take care. . .
2001-01-11 12:46:00, Tricia


Amber, Love to you from Grandpa
2001-01-11 07:12:31, GP


Barbra, I enjoyed going to Adam's game with you. It was fun to talk with Adam about it at school.
2001-01-10 19:49:32, Love, Christy


Christy thank you for going to Adam's game with me. It was good to hang out with you. We have not done that in awhile. I will call you later to harass you about soda, candy bars, stomach crunches, leg lunges and whatever else i can think of.:) Love Barbra
2001-01-10 16:57:07, Barbra


HAPPY BIRTHDAY AMBER. GN and I enjoyed your speech yesterday. Took courage to get up in front of a lot of people and talk. Many adults would be scarred to death to do it. Others would rather die. We are proud of you. You did great! Keep speaking. Success in life depends upon communication. Love Gp and GM
2001-01-10 10:02:08, Grandpa Joe


Happy birthday amber. You are turning into a beautiful girl. Have fun at your sleep over party.
Stay up late and drive your parents crazy. Love Barbra
2001-01-10 08:21:09, Barbra


HAPPY BIRTHDAY to Amber tomorrow. Hope you have a good day and I hope you also know that we love you. We will celebrate your birthday soon when everyone has time. We enjoyed seeing you in school day and you did a great job at the speech competition. Love you

2001-01-09 22:44:13, Grandma Bea and Grandpa Joe


OK everybody tell Nina her haircut looks real nice; Mark told her it made her look like an "old lady." Great smoozing technique; tell the truth; always works to impress the girls-NOT. Oh well, at least Nina's hair can grow out. Easier than it will be for me to lose the weight I gained between Thanksgiving and Christmas Holidays.
Glad Adam is doing well in school and playing hockey; I hope Amber wins at the next level of competition. Great for young people to learn the confidence of getting up in front of a group of people and speaking.
Claude
2001-01-09 22:14:11, Claude


Adam has a hockey game tonight at 9:40.Wish the game were not so late. I am proud of Adam doing well in school and playing a sport to keep him out of trouble. It is always good to see him play. Anyone you can stay up that late come watch sometime. When Derek comes home i plan to take him to see Adam play. He has wanted to go. Hope everyone is doing well. love Barbra
2001-01-09 17:08:27, Barbra


ALCON: Heck I thought the site was still experiencing start-up problems; you know how those dot.coms are with burning through the cash and not being able to continue; oh well read Nina's comment about coming down and "begging" in March; a Colonel makes more money than that so please just provide them your best food scraps and leave the rest for Sandy. Sounds like Mom and Dad are getting involved in the neighborhood maybe they'll stay around for awhile; anyway I know we'll have visitors living near AJ Henry Park. Wonder if Dad will miss his emails?
Busy week but one nice thing about the military is 4 day weekends for each National Holiday that provides for a 3 day ie the unit adds on an extra day off. I MLK weekend: off Fri to Monday. Just goes with the free shrimp and steaks at the commissary. Glad to see everybody is involved with taking care of the family; as Hillary says "it takes a family." or did she say a village? more her style as she doesn't care about anybody but herself. Bye bye, Claude
PS: I hope GW doesn't go "wobbly" with supporting his cabinet members after Chavez withdrew; blood in the water only brings out the sharks and then you really have to show what you are made of to regain the high ground. Dems definition of Bi-partisan means having things your way like at Burger King.
2001-01-08 21:57:48, Claude


Dad and I are going to hand out drinks to the runners that will be coming by our house Sunday a.m. A girl in our neighborhood runs and so she talked up into doing this. Should be fun. Anyone that wants to come by and help and see are welcomed to do so. They should be here between 9:30 and 10 a.m. but you know how that goes.
2001-01-08 16:06:14, Mama Bea


Dad and I are going to hand out drinks to the runners that will be coming by our house Sunday a.m. A girl in our neighborhood runs and so she talked up into doing this. Should be fun. Anyone that wants to come by and help and see are welcomed to do so. They should be here between 9:30 and 10 a.m. but you know how that goes.
2001-01-08 16:05:40,


Never mind about the pictures you guys. I finally found them.
2001-01-07 23:25:11, Kerri


Good luck at your meet this weekend Amber!!! I will be thinking about you and anticipating your results. I know you will be fabulous!
2001-01-07 23:07:28, Kerri


Where did the Raa party pictures go? I wanted to print one. Help me out Kurt!!!
2001-01-07 23:03:24, Kerri


TALKED TO DEREK THIS AM. HE IS DOING FINE. WAITING FOR THE REST OF THE MARINES TO ARRIVE SO THEY CAN HEAD OUT AND BEGIN THE TRAINING. THANK YOU FOR DINNER MOM AND DAD. LOVE YA
2001-01-07 13:03:17, BARBRA


Hey everyone! it was great being with you on the weekend. Love the park and being with you for dinner. Barbra you are beautiful. Tell Derek we miss him. He is a great man. Look forward to having Adam and Sarah with us this week. All of you have a great week.
2001-01-07 11:33:06, Dad


Good to see you also Christy. Maybe we can get together this week. I know we all get busy. Hope kids got the mushrooms for you. Let's keep in touch :)Take care
2001-01-07 07:36:40, Barbra


Sorry I did not get to visit with you today Kurt. i guess i can not do it all. Enjoyed going to the Mall with you Barbra and Joe. Also enjoyed dinner with Barbra, Erik and Jennifer. Thanks for all your help with cooking and cleaning up. Hope that all have a good week and I also hope that i will get to see everyone this week. Time for bed.

2001-01-06 22:13:11, Mama Bea


Kurt, Amber and Hunter I loved being with you at AJ Henry Park. Congratulations to you Amber on your speech. You are talented in writing, poetry, gymnastics and a beautiful young girl also. Invite me to come to hear your speech before the entire student body. I will accept. I love you. Hunter, it was fun to hear about your experiences in the snow. Love you all, Grandpa (GP)
2001-01-06 16:06:57, GP


Hey Claude. Miss you in Actnuts.
2001-01-06 16:03:47, Dad


Barbra looks absolutely beautiful. Ten years younger. Her short hair highlights her pretty face and her neck. It is wonderful what love and a new makeover will do. Derek is lucky to have such a pretty woman. Love ya Barbra. We had a nice dinner with you last night.
2001-01-06 11:44:59, Dad


Barbra, I am glad you had a good trip to Valdosta. Your hair looks great! Thank you for coming over to visit. It was good to talk to you.
2001-01-05 23:39:23, Love, Christy


I had a good day at work. Worked from 11-7 and saw plenty of ill or injured people. One little girl hurt her nose by shooting a 20 gage shot gun and it ricocheted back and cut her nose. She did kill a squirrel. Her mama was pretty up set she got hurt.
Barbra glad you like your haircut. I am next. I have an appt on Wed for a cut and a style. I am ready for something new!!! Love you All!
2001-01-05 22:19:20, Nina


I made it home safe from my day trip to Valdosta. I
think it is a cute town. Had all my hair cut off and feel like a new person. I am now ready for my new life in 2001 with Adam, Sarah, Derek, friends and family. Thank you mom and dad for dinner. love Barbra
2001-01-05 20:11:47, Barbra


It is a total thrill to see a joint session of Congress, This is history in the making. Seeing the electors decision for President is one I will never forget. This is a civics lesson that is only imagined in school and it will be studied and dissected for years to come. Democracy works! I have faith in the American People.
2001-01-05 15:45:19, Dad


Character is important. Some have it others don't. There are some who are peeping tom's They look into other peoples windows because they don't have a life of their own lives. Others snoop around and read other peoples mail. You'd think they would grow up and act like an adult. But some jerks will never get the picture. They are just losers and will be that way forever. What a pity.
2001-01-05 14:11:04, Dad


Hello family. It seems the train is pulling out of the station and we are still packing. We plan to have Mark and I come down the begging of March and life with Mama and Dad until we move in the end of MAr. Anyone hearing of a good nursing job in an office let me know. I have sent my resume out to several places. We are so excited about moving closer to all of you. Love
2001-01-05 10:49:01, Nina


Dearest Family. I was thinking of how wonderful it is to be part of a great family. You know, there are some, out there, who have no one. No one cares for them. And they care for no one. Why, some of them do not even have a mother who loves them. How pitiful they are. What a waste of flesh! They are just bums who try to make life miserable for others cause they are just worthless losers themselves. We can be glad we don't have people like that in our family. Get a life!

2001-01-05 08:14:59, Dad


Hope that you have a good day tomorrow Barbra i will be thinking about you and will be waiting to hear all about it. Be safe on the highways. It is some country where Derek is. Wish you could all see it. We live in a beautiful country. As the Kids would say. "it is awesome". Sarah and Adam, remember the 14th as we may be needing your help. It should be fun. Love to all.
2001-01-04 23:33:35, Grandma Bea


HAVE A GOOD WEEKEND EVERYONE. SARAH SAID SHE SAW CHRISTY, KURT AND HUNTER AT THE MALL. SARAH I LOVE THE CRICKET YOU PAINTED. YOU DID A GREAT JOB. TALKED TO DEREK TONIGHT. HE IS MISSING ALL OF US. SOUNDS BUSY GETTING READY FOR THE DESERT. HOW THE NEXT FEW WEEKS GO FAST. TALKED NINA UP TODAY. MY OFFICE MAY WANT HER. MORE LATER. LOVE YOU
2001-01-04 22:51:33, BARBRA


Read your speech Amber, you did a great job. We are eager to hear all about your trip to the mountains. Hunter, how did you like the snow? I heard you went sledding on a cardboard box. I did that when I was your age. Call me or come to see me when you have the time. Christy we miss hearing from you. Love, Grandpa and Grandma
2001-01-04 18:58:45, Grandpa


Nicole Zylick is coming to see me this month. I have not seen her in 10 years or so. It will good to see her and hear what she is up to.
2001-01-04 17:24:33, Barbra


Amber, we just read you speech for school on Darling and you did a very good job of it and we are proud of you. Little Darling has had some bad times but also many good times. Hope that she has better luck in her older years. Hope to see you soon and also Darling.
2001-01-03 10:36:02, Grandma


Hello Christy. Glad you are back in town. Looks like you all had a good time. Can not wait to hear all about it. Hope to see you this weekend. Love Barbra
2001-01-02 17:59:43, Barbra


Dad and I just viewed the photo's from the mountains. Christy you did a great job and the place looks awesome and we are glad that you and the Kids were able to enjoy it. Photo's are just like Post Cards. Grandpa Joe is jealous to see that Amber loves Poppa. He told me to move on fast. I will tell you why I could not get the photo's before in private.

2001-01-02 17:22:03, Mama


i should have said 29 Palms. Sorry.
2001-01-02 17:18:25, Bea


Derek, We are missing you. It was so nice to have you with us for the Holiday's. Once again I want to welcome you into our family. We are not perfect but we do have fun. Hope that all goes well for you while at 12 Palms. We will continue to take good care of Barbra while you are away. Hope to hear from you if you have time. Love

2001-01-02 13:05:13, Ms. Bea


Kurt. I went to the web page to see the photo's from the mountains but only one came up. The other sites next) show the title but not a picture. Better straighten it out for us. I feel disappointed that Amber and Hunter did not phone us to tell us about the snow. Oh well. Glad that they had a good time. now back to the routine. Love to all and the best in the New Year.
2001-01-02 13:00:55, Mama Bea


Honey Bea, That is a hard act to follow. Here we are in the new year. 20001, a space odyssey. Mama and I wish you all the very best in the next 12 months. Barbra and Derek, we are so happy for you. At last you have found true love. Barbra you never have looked happier. You are one of the most beautiful women I have ever seen. Love does that. Physical love, YES! but spiritual love also. Love is happiness. Without love, life is worthless. But we have to work for it.. for it does not come easily and is easily lost. It is why we do what we do. Derek, we are so glad that you have come into our family. You are the very best. An officer and a gentleman. You and Barbra have won life's lottery. Rich beyond compare. Happiness is wealth, but, you can't buy it. Family Shipley, we can't believe that you are finally coming to Tallahassee. Our family get tog ether's will never be the same. Buddy and I will never be able to pass Shipley House on my way to AJ Henry Park without stopping and seeing you. Kurt, We hope that we will have more time or more quality time in the next year. Christy, bring the kids to see us and we will come to see you. Kim and Heather we love being with you. We look forward to more time with you in the new year. So, dear family, Life is great. It has never been greater. We have all of you to thank for that.
2001-01-01 21:48:51, Dad


thank you Adam and Sarah for spending the day with us. it was great You were so helpful and pleasant while we did out errors this morning. While Grandpa rested I enjoyed being to the museum with you both and thought it was fun and interesting. I am glad Sarah that you were able to spend time with the twins. Adam I am sorry you have a cold and do hope you have a good night and feeling better in the a.m. I cold will last six days with or without help. Take care and have a good and productive time the next 5 to 6 months in school. Summer will be here before we know it. Miss you Christy and the Kids and hope to hear all about you great time in the mountains and in the snow. I also want to thank Kim and Heather for the pleasant evening at their place yesterday. What a nice way to spent the New Years Day. I love you all and wish you only the best.
2001-01-01 20:40:44, mama and Grandma Bea


Happy new year family. This will be a wonderful year for all of us. I have had a good time with Adam and Sarah the past week. Sarah is ready for school to start so she can show her new earrings. Derek will leave for 12 palms tonight. I will miss him much. Derek has made this x-mas wonderful for Adam, Sarah and of course ME. I am so ready to make our future with him. Sarah is ready to be a flower girl.:) I miss my Christy. Can not wait to hear all about the ski trip. Thank you mom and dad for keeping Adam and Sarah today. Love Barbra
2001-01-01 17:30:12, Barbra